Upon much reflection, prayer and review- it is clear to me that God takes us all through our experiences for the greater good. Throughout this post, I will list some recent circumstances I went through that has equipped me and taught me how to be more appreciative during this current season of my life. These experiences have inspired this post. When it seems like your losing and nothing is going in your favor, just know that it is this process that is leading you on the path to Winning.
During the end of 2011, I moved to Syracuse, NY for job. After just two weeks of being on the job, I was let go. I was devastated and in a very low place. I felt like I had uprooted my whole life for nothing. As I write and share this- this is even freeing for me- because most who are close to me- didn’t know this occurred. I was ashamed, and THOUGHT I had lost everything I worked to build. For about 2 months I was out of work, without money, behind on all my bills- this was just a dry season in life for me. In Addition to being out of work, I was going through a tough break-up and my Grandmother passed in the beginning of 2012. This season of life was beyond difficult, but it was through this season, I turned to God like never before. I reflected on the book of Philippians- specifically chapter 3. I must admit, when I first received the job offer, I was a tad bit haughty and relying on my own strength- God quickly observed this and stripped all of what I held on pedestal, away from me. It was through this time, that I knew, that everything I gained or received from that day on was ONLY because of him, not me. Once I grasped this truth, I then saw God changing and shifting everything for the better
It is ironic how God show’s his sense of humor and love for us. On February 14, 2102, (Valentines Day) I started my new job within the Public Relations and News office at Syracuse University. I also was accepted into the Kauffman Entrepreneur Fellowship where I began developing my business, SOCIAL U, and moved into my own apartment. I thank God everyday for friends and family who supported me spiritually, financially, and emotionally- I definitely couldn’t have done it without them. Below is one of my reflections I shared on Instagram on December 2, 2012.
I want to encourage you today to stay strong, faithful, and prayerful- even if you are in your dry season. Know that God has a plan. When you are stripped from all your earthly possessions or whatever the specific circumstance may be, you are not losing…but in the process of Winning. Embrace your ‘losing’ season so that you can be ready for your WIN!
“He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”- Jim Elliot
In this song Fantasia is specifically singing about a relationship where her partner is no longer willing to make the relationship work. Although I know many of us can relate to this, I thought it was important to share as a message of life. Sometimes we can miss what God has for our lives because we are so caught up in the present, making the present work, and holding on- when in reality these situations are only hurting and hindering our process. During the process of letting go it may feel like your losing everything, but the truth is, there is only more to gain once you let go of circumstances, past experiences, and people you are allowing to block you from WINNING.